My extremely awesome 19-year-old cousin is visiting from Atlanta, and we went to Cha-Ya last night. He so thoroughly charmed our server with his sincere appreciation of the meal that we got free dessert: soy ice cream with a red bean paste and (I think) a seaweed sauce, topped with toasted rice. Apparently I have not cornered the market on charm, which is probably all for the greater good. He can come visit me anytime.